Newspaper Link

I was featured in my local paper this week. Here is the link to the 'Tumbler Ridge News'. 

Book Signing Success

Goodness! I realized I didn't post about the book signing I did in Grande Prairie on March 17. That's quite awhile ago, but it seems I had lots of other things going on here at 'Expression Express'. I was quite pleased with the signing event over all. The staff at 'Coles' book store were very helpful and encouraging. Thanks especially to the manager, Teresa Rokas for coordinating the event. I sold several books, left a bunch more in the store as signed copies, and had lots of opportunity to chat and hand out business cards and bookmarks.

Here are a few more pictures.

New painting - 'Son'

I haven't posted any art in awhile, but since I am preparing for an annual juried art show that I participate in every year, I thought I'd post this new painting called 'Son'. I actually painted it for my son Zak as a birthday gift on his birthday about a month ago. He turned twenty and believe it or not, he said he wanted art. My daughter, who is also an artist, painted him a picture and I also commissioned a good friend of mine who is an artist to do a painting for him. He said he wanted art, so he got art!

This particular work is an acrylic on canvas and is 18"x24". I asked his permission to submit it to the 'Peace Liard Juried Art Show' that I enter each spring. I'll post a little later about all three pieces that I am submitting this year.

I like the energy and painterly quality of this piece. It isn't too polished and I think it captures his free spirit and unorthodox ways, even if it doesn't look exactly like him. I like the tension created by the dramatic composition.Feel free to leave a comment.

Final Thoughts On Purpose

This year is my year of 'Purpose' and with that I've been reading Rick Warren's book The Purpose Driven Life. In the last two weeks I've outlined some basic thoughts from the book. Today I'd like to finish up with his three last 'purposes' for our lives.

Purpose # 3: You were created to become like Christ
I especially liked this part of the book, and obviously, by the underlining I did when I read it previously, this was how I felt the first time around. In this section Rick Warren talks about the importance of growing spiritually and outlines some important factors such as disciplined study of the word, and allowing trials and temptations to teach us.

Purpose # 4: You were shaped for serving God.
In this section he explains the fact that service isn't optional. It's not about whether you 'feel' like serving God; it's required. This section was very interesting in that it discusses spiritual gifts,personality, talents, and life experiences in determining how best you can serve God.

Purpose # 5: You were made for a mission.
This final purpose focuses on evangelism and our need to share our faith with the world. It also recaps nicely all the other things said in the book with living a balanced life.

If you have never read this book, you really should. There is a reason it was an international best-seller when it came out and why it still continues to speak to people today. Even if you have read the book, you might want to take a second look. I know I benefited from reading it the second time. There was so much I had forgotten or let lapse, and it really helped me to refocus my life on living for God - on purpose.

To read my other posts follow the links:
What On Earth Am I here For?
Purpose #1 and #2

Handling POV

Do you enjoy reading books written in first person point of view? Or do you find most of your favorites are in third person? What about multiple points of view? Even then, there are variables such as omniscient, limited or limited omniscient... Many readers don't really consider all the options. They're just looking for a good read and if POV is handled well, the reader really shouldn't be left wondering. However, for the writer, handling POV can be tricky business.There are many different options, but a writer needs to know which they prefer and how to handle all the options.

I have never written anything in the first person point of view. I prefer writing in the third person, and I often write from several characters’ POV, not just one or two. The trick to doing this successfully is to be very, very, careful (did I say VERY CAREFUL?!) not to head hop during a scene. I’ve read books where the author ‘head hops’ and it can be quite confusing. Stick to one person’s POV and then if you want to switch, make sure there is some kind of break – a scene change, a new chapter, or even just a sentence or paragraph to let the reader know that you are switching heads. I always prefer an actual scene change delineated by a spacing or chapter break. I also feel it is important to keep in mind that not everyone ‘thinks’ the same way. You should know each of your main characters so intimately, that when you switch to their POV, you are seeing and feeling and reacting to the world as they see it, not as you would necessarily see it. There is a subtle difference there, which can really make a story come alive. 

I came across a book recently that had me sitting back and blinking in confusion. It was written from more than one point of view, some of which 'head hopped' in the middle of a scene which was disconcerting enough, but what really got me was a sudden switch from first person to third. I have read books like this before but the author has to be very skilled to handle this successfully. (One book which was pretty successful at this was THE PLAYERS by R.D. Wilson. In it, a demonic being intermittently tells some of the action. You can read my review of that book here.) I'm not sure the other book I'm referring to was able to pull it off. It felt like a serious mental break in the storyline and I immediately knew why. Other readers might not be able to pinpoint what it is that doesn't 'seem right', but I was surprised that the author chose to write it this way, or that someone - a critique partner or an editor - didn't advise against it. 

The Right Way - A Journey Into the Light

The Right Way – A Journey Into the Light is a memoir written by Robert O. Russell. It’s not a typical memoir, however, in that while he reminisces, he does so with the sole purpose of helping others who may have gone through similar circumstances and trials.  He makes this clear throughout the story as he weaves in and out through various themes, often digressing, but in a very conversational way. It was an easy book to read and did not come across as self serving or vane. His life story is genuinely interesting and he writes with humor and introspection, addressing delicate topics frankly and honestly, but always with his main purpose in mind. Even the sometimes sordid details of abuse and other trauma are dealt with in a philosophical way, always pointing to the valuable lessons learned and the fact that God was ultimately in control of his life. 

As a warning to readers, there are some topics that some may find uncomfortable or even offensive, but I believe the book could have great impact for people who may have suffered as he did, especially in the realm of sexual abuse. As well, he is quite forthright in talking about his failed marriage, issues with drinking and the law, and other shortcomings. The book isn’t only about his ‘failures’, however.  (And he wouldn’t call them failures. They are all part of the fabric that has made him the man he is today.) There are also many lighthearted accounts, especially as a child, and other successes that he narrates quite seamlessly into the mix. He has some very strong convictions in terms of his spirituality and faith which may not line up with everyone’s view, but again, he makes it clear that his purpose is to bring healing and hope, not condemnation. Over all, I enjoyed reading this book and would recommend it as a counseling tool for those struggling with hurts from the past. 

New video trailer for PLAY IT AGAIN

Here is the new video trailer for PLAY IT AGAIN.  Enjoy!


You can also watch it here:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eTT1nErQjyE

Journaling - an inspiration gold mine

Do you journal? I've been writing in journals ever since I got my first 'diary' as a child of about nine. At that time I wrote about every mundane thing that happened during the day, and some of those early journals got tossed - especially when I went back to read them as a teen. How embarrassing! There is something about writing down one's inner thoughts, though, that I continue to find cathartic.
I no longer use my journals as a daily record keeper, although sometimes that does happen. Most of the time I find it is a way to clarify my feelings on a topic, be it a joyful event or something that has been causing me angst. When I look back on my journals, I find that much of the time I use them as prayers. It's like I'm conversing with God, and for me this has been a really valuable way to commune with Him on an ongoing basis. 
My journals also contain snippets of inspiration. Sometimes I just want to describe an especially breathtaking view, turn my feelings into a short poem, or record a piece of dialogue that I've been 'hearing' in my head. My journals have been a gold mine of ideas for this blog, for instance, as well as for ideas about plots, characters, and scenery that I might want to use in a future story.
My mother used to keep a journal. Many of her journals were for sermon notes (I do that, too) or prayers, thoughts and feelings. It is almost surreal to open a page from one of them and read. Its like I can hear her talking, and I guess in a way, I can. This has been precious to me since she deteriorated into a state of dementia before she passed away. It was like we'd lost her seven years before she actually died. However, her words still live on in her many journals. 
One of my favorite things is writing in the first page of a new journal. Inevitably I start with a similar exclamation about how wonderful it is to start a brand new one! I'm reminded of this as I just started a new one the other day. It's a soft, white, leather bound journal with a cute little monkey appliqued to the cover. My daughter bought it for me last year and I've been saving it until I used up my other one. I've had journals in every shape and size from simple coil bound to expensive embossed ones to everything in between. I keep them all, along with my many full sketchbooks, in a box in my closet. I enjoy looking back at them now and then, noticing recurring themes throughout, and taking note of answered prayers.
I know that not everyone enjoys writing in a journal, and I have found since starting to blog that I don't always write as frequently as I used to since some of my thoughts just naturally end up here instead. However, nothing will completely replace the intimacy of good old pen and paper. 
What are your thoughts on journaling? Is it something you enjoy or something you plan to begin?

What's Your Purpose?

Last Thursday I gave a brief synopsis from section one of Rick Warren's book The Purpose Driven Life entitled 'What On Earth Am I Here For?' Today I'd like to focus on what he gives as purpose # 1 & 2.

Purpose #1: You Were Planned For God's Pleasure
1. The Bible says we were created for God's pleasure. Everything we do should be done as if directly for Him.
2.  God wants us to trust Him completely. He knows what is best and trusting Him makes Him happy.
3. Surrender all to God as an act of worship. Don't hold any area of your life back.
4. God wants to be our best friend. This means an open line of communication at all times, not just during formal 'prayer'.
5. Ultimately you are as close to God as you choose to be. Make practical choices to grow closer to Him.
6. God wants all of me.
7. God doesn't change no matter how I may feel. Our own emotions can change, but focus on remaining true to God even when it's hard to 'feel' His presence.

Purpose #2: You Were Formed For God's Family
1. We were made for fellowship. Cultivate relationships with other believers.
2. It's all about love. Again, relationships should be priority. Examine your own priorities and get it right!
3. I am called to belong, not just believe. Some people feel they can make it as a 'lone ranger' Christian. The truth is, it's difficult. Get involved!
4. I need others in my life. Building on this whole idea, Rick suggests that you think of practical ways to get involved with others on a heart felt, genuine level.
5. Community requires commitment. I especially liked a quote from this chapter: "Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it is thinking of yourself less." Excellent!
6. Relationships are always worth restoring. How many of us have experienced the devastation of a broken relationship? Take the time to reach out, forgive, and restore. "God expects unity, not uniformity'.
7. Protect the unity of your church. This is everyone's responsibility. There is no place for gossip or harboring ill will.

Three Advice 'Quickies'

I was asked in an interview recently to give three short pieces of writing advice. I've recapped these 'quickies' here as my top three:

1. Know the basics. How often have I come across a fledgling author’s work, either in a critique situation, or after they have already spent good money on self-publishing, to see that there are serious flaws in such basics as style, grammar and usage? Yikes! In the first case, I am happy to offer some pointers, and in the second … well … I wish I could have been there to say, “Please study your craft!” After all, writing is a craft – an art form, if you will – that takes study, dedication, and hard work. I don’t think there is one writer out there who can truly say, “I know it all.” Just when you think you’ve figured it out, something else pops out at you; something that you were not aware was a problem until someone else graciously points it out.

2. Be open to criticism. Every writer needs a sounding board; people who will honestly and sincerely look at your work and point out the flaws. Family members and close friends aren’t always the best choice since they either ‘love’ everything because you wrote it, or they don’t want to hurt your feelings.Sometimes the truth hurts, but trust me, you'll be a better writer for it. 

3. Be persistent. Writing is also a business, and the competition is fierce. Heed the advice of agents and publishers, (if any is given) but keep on submitting! Not everyone is going to love your book, so get tough and carry on. Those that give up after a few rejections probably won’t have what it takes to do all the promoting etc. that happens after publication anyway. This has been the biggest eye opener for me since crossing that line into the ‘published’ realm. The real work begins after the book releases. 

There you have it. What are your top three bits of writing advice? 

Meander Scar - a review

Meander Scar won last year’s ‘Grace Award’ for women’s fiction and now I know why. This book was nothing short of wonderful. Author Lisa Lickel has crafted an unorthodox romance fraught with complications and intrigue that draws the reader in almost immediately and keeps you guessing right until the very last page.

Ann Ballard is an older woman caught in emotional limbo. Her husband went missing years earlier without a trace. He left behind a thriving business but unfortunately his mother, an insensitive, controlling woman, will not release Ann or any of the company’s finances, leaving Ann to struggle to make ends meet. Ann’s grown son Ritchie has also struggled to let go of his father’s memory, but he is now married and about to become a father himself.  Enter Mark Roth, a former neighbor who was in high school when Ritchie was a child and whose brother Trey was Ritchie’s best friend. Trey died tragically in an accident and the family left town, but now Mark is back and is a successful lawyer. Although he is eleven years her junior, Mark and Ann fall in love and thus the complications really begin.

Mark and Ann face opposition from every angle. Neither of their families approve of the relationship, which is compounded by the fact that Ann’s husband might still be alive. There seems to be some kind of mysterious cover up when it comes to his disappearance and Ann risks betraying everyone she loves in pursuit of the truth. There are plenty of surprises as this story ‘meanders’ its way through one complication after another. Just when we finally think everything will work out for Mark and Ann another unexpected twist occurs. The ending took me by surprise – not unpleasantly, but it was certainly not what I had expected.

This book deserves all five stars and more!

Some Great Links this Week

Happy St. Patrick's Day! I have lots of great links this week. First of all, don't miss this article I wrote on book launches at Quazen. It's an adapted version of a similar article I wrote for 'Fellowscript' last year, with updates and streamlined info.

The fifteenth of the month is my usual date for posting at 'Inscribe' - don't miss this column on 'Life Lessons From Writing'.

And last but not least, I had had a fantastic week as my book AND THE BEAT GOES ON was showcased thanks to the efforts of my friends at the John 3:16 Marketing Network. Here are some links:
Katharine Harms - Books On Tilt - a fun and informative interview!
Carol Brown - a great feature and book review.
An interview with Carol Brown
A review of AND THE BEAT GOES ON with Carol Brown. 
Ashley Wintters - feature and review
Feature and Interview at Janet Eckles blog. 
Feature at Anita Estes blog.
Feature and article on Leigh DeLozier's blog  
Feature at Kimberley Payne's blog 
article at Rose McCauley's blog
Interview at Kenneth Winters' blog
Tom Blubaugh's blog 

Book Signing Tomorrow

 For those of you in the Grande Prairie, Alberta area, stop by Coles Book Store in the Prairie Mall between 1:00 and 3:00 tomorrow, March 17. I'll be there doing a book signing event. Book signings are not always as lucrative as one would hope, but then again, any exposure is good exposure, I always say. I've done signings where I haven't sold even one book and then I've done other events where I actually sold in the double digits. I've found that the more interaction, as in a little talk first or something like that, and the more sales you will make. Here are some past pictures from various events.

PURPOSE Check In

I can't believe we are already halfway through the third month of the year. Back in January, many of us chose to sum up our new year's goals in 'one word'. My word for 2012 was 'Purpose'. You can read about my reasons for this word choice here. I thought it was about time I did a check in, to let you know how I've been doing.

Sadly, I didn't manage to read The Purpose Driven Life in forty days as I had 'purposed' to do, but I am still working my way through it and enjoying the slower pace. I've read the book before and I thought I'd do a brief synopsis over the next few weeks since it is divided quite nicely into six sections. It has been helpful in refocusing my attention on what is important, so perhaps you will benefit as well.

Section One is called 'What On Earth Am I Here For?" and outlines the following points:
1. It's not about me. In spite of all the advertising etc. life is really about living for God.
2. I am not an accident. God uniquely created each one of us. We must come to accept our personality, background and physical appearance, because we are made the God wanted us to be.
3. Living on purpose is the path to peace. Think about what drives your life and consider what you wish would drive your life. God gives perfect peace to those who keep their purpose in Him.
4. There is more to life than just the here and now. We were made to last for eternity, so start living with that in mind.
5. Life is a test and life is a trust. Sometimes life's circumstance are a test from God and He has entrusted us with all that we have. I like the verse from this point which says, "Unless you are faithful in small things, you won't be faithful in large ones." Sobering advice.
6. This life is temporary - it's not my home. Keep that in mind as you live from day to day.
7. God is the reason for everything. Glorify Him in everything you do.

I hope you enjoyed this recap from Rick Warren's classic book. Next week I'll talk about Purpose #1: We were planned for God's pleasure.

What do the 'Stars' Really Mean?

I'm not talking about astrology here. I'm talking about book reviews posted at various sites, especially on Amazon. Everyone is clamoring for positive reviews since apparently this validates ones writing somehow. I have heard that it drives up ranking and hey - it also looks good. I see authors regularly posting on facebook every time another review comes in. "Oh! Check me out! I just got another five star review on Amazon! I must be fabulous!"

Sorry if I'm sounding a bit snarky about it. I appreciate positive reviews as much as anyone, and I admit that I have posted a time or two when an especially good one came my way. However, I'm becoming a bit skeptical about the validity of all those reviews. I have come across several books in the last year or so as I've been networking with other authors that have tons of four and five star reviews - and guess what? Upon reading some of those very books I couldn't believe the poor quality of writing that I encountered. I'm talking about basic stuff like POV head hopping; lots and lots of telling and very little 'showing'; slow moving plot lines; cliches up to 'here' ... and on and on it goes. Yet, when I read the reviews I hear things like, "This is the best book I've ever read!" or, "It kept me turning the pages long into the night," or, "Ms. So and So sure knows how to craft a believable story."

Really? REALLY?!?! Maybe it was the best book they'd ever read because they haven't read many books... Maybe they kept turning those pages because they suffer from insomnia and were hoping it would put them to sleep ...  Maybe they live in some kind of altered reality where cliche characters and cliche plot lines really exist...

I don't know. But it's made this reader a little bit gun shy about believing what I see on Amazon (or any other review site for that matter.) It's pretty obvious that these folks have either paid for these reviews, or they have a whole lot of family members willing to write reviews on their behalf. (On that note, I come from a very large family, but none of them have gotten around to posting any reviews yet. Sigh. Maybe if I paid them?)

I actually think having a couple of less favorable reviews might do some authors some good. A sprinkling of three stars might balance the field and make me take them more seriously. When I see forty 'five star' reviews I am now instantly suspicious. An honest review with a few criticisms is far more helpful than all the glowing mush that is currently clogging up Amazon's review space. Or, if it is a four or five star review, I like to hear real, specific comments about why it's a good book - not just all the standard cliches that mean absolutely nothing.

Unfortunately, the other thing that I have noticed is that most of the books in question are self-published. Now I'm not knocking anyone's choices, because self-pubbing is a very viable option and I have read some great self published books. However, quality is more difficult to guarantee, and in the case of all the books I'm thinking of, this was definitely the case. (I'm not going to list them either - I'm not in the business of making enemies.)

My conclusion? Next time you choose to read a book based on reviews alone, be warned. Sometimes the stars don't mean a thing.

As an added caution on this topic, I came across a very eye-opening post awhile back written by Shawn Lamb on her blog 'All-On Writing'. In it she talks about the possible copyright issues that one could face via their amazon book reviews. It was certainly news to me and somewhat alarming. You might want to check it out.
She also did a follow up post clarifying  some of the issues raised - and yes, Amazon does claim the right to ownership of reviews. From what I understand, the writer of the review can post it elsewhere, but authors of the book being reviewed may not ... Hm. Check it out here.

How I Found My Passion

Last Saturday I had the privilege of addressing a group of women at an 'International Women's Day' event in my home town. In my speech, I talk about my writing journey and give some advice on pursuing your passions, no matter what they might be. I've reprinted the speech here.

     It's a privilege to be here today among such a wonderful group of women. 2012 marks my fourth year here in Tumbler Ridge and although most of your faces are familiar I am still surprised at how many people I don't know. Since Rose already introduced me, you already know who I am, but to help jog your memories, I'm that 'drama lady' over at the high school and if you haven't been out to catch one of our fabulous productions, why not?!
     I'm going to start off by telling you a little story. This is a story about a young woman of my acquaintance - a new mother in fact, and it starts around 1985 - 1986. She found herself alone a lot while her husband was at work and although she was generally quite busy (new babies - especially first ones, tend to do that to a person) she needed something else to do.
     She had always been a daydreamer; stories were constantly swirling around in her head and they sometimes found their way 'outside' either in her sketchbook or in snippets while journaling. She decided to borrow her mother's old typewriter and began clacking away once baby was down for her nap. Soon naptime became the highlight of her day - a much anticipated event; something to look forward to with excitement.
     You've probably already guessed by now that that young woman was me and that is how my passion for writing began.
     Fast forward sixteen years to the early 2000s. Three more babies had arrived. As well, several moves and teaching either full or part time had been added to the mix. However, I had continued to write, thankfully by this time, with the change to a computer, which is something akin to switching from a hammer and chisel to a pen and ink. In any case, this was a milestone for me in that those first few pages that I'd been writing during naptime had now turned into over 80,000 words. I had finally finished that manuscript (and started two more) and it was at this point that I began to wonder ... would anyone be interested in reading what I'd written?
     Up until that point I had honestly never really thought about trying to get published. I wrote out of my own 'need' to do so - a strange compulsion that simply provided me with personal satisfaction. But once that first book was actually finished, I began to consider the possibilities...
     ...Which just goes to show how very naive I was! I soon discovered that none of the big publishing houses accepted unsolicited manuscripts. You had to find an agent and I had no idea how to do that. I persevered and took some baby steps, submitting my finished work to several agents. I also found an agency that purported to 'help you find an agent' and so I submitted there, too. Then I waited.
     Several months later I got some letters in the mail. I remember being so excited and nervous all at the same time, almost afraid to open them. Almost all were nice, polite rejection letters; all very formulaic with no reason for the rejection. All that is, except ... that one letter. It was from the agency. It was two pages long and basically stripped me up one side and down the other. In it, they pointed out everything that was bad about my story. 
     I was so hurt! Writing a book is kind of like bringing up a child, especially since it took me sixteen years! This was my baby! And now they were tearing it to shreds. Once I got over myself and had time to lick my wounds, I realized that everything they said was absolutely true. It's a lot like your child getting in trouble at school. At first you want to protect them; defend them; make excuses for them ... As their mother, you know they're actually a good kid at heart, and you have all those sweet memories of when they were a tiny baby ... I've been on both sides of this scenario as a mother and a teacher. Finally, you can't ignore the evidence that is staring you right in the face. 
     This is exactly what I experienced. There was no denying it. My book was terrible - maybe not so much terrible as immature. I could see all of the flaws just jumping out at me from the pages and I couldn't believe I hadn't seen the truth before.
     I'm going to fast forward again to 2008. That's the year we moved to Tumbler Ridge. By that time I had learned to embrace criticism - even seek it out. I continued to send out five or six submissions per year and received much valuable feedback, but still ... no offers.
     That spring my husband was already working here but I hadn't moved yet. I was on an extended sick leave and came to stay for a couple of weeks. I decided that this was it. I was going to find an agent or a publisher and since I had the time, I began researching for all I was worth at the local library. At this time I had four finished manuscripts and I started sending out submissions - about 30 per book for a total of 120 submissions! It cost a fortune in photocopying fees and postage, but I was determined to make something happen! Then I waited.
     In the meantime we bought a house, moved in and I started teaching at the high school. Then the rejections started trickling in. I wish now I would have saved all those letters. It would have made interesting wallpaper. In any case, about 70% of my queries never got any response - not even a nice form letter. The other 30% were mostly nice formulaic rejections, with I think five responses that actually took the time to give constructive feedback, which I really appreciated. And then there were three ... yes, THREE responses that were interested. Hallelujah!
     After following up on those I ended up signing my first book deal for AND THE BEAT GOES ON in October of 2008. Fast forward again to today - 2012. I now have three books published, two of which have made it onto Amazon's best seller list for 'Contemporary Romance', and one more that I just signed a deal for. As well, I now have an agent which opens all kinds of doors which I was unable to open myself. I've also had some success finding publishers for my stage plays. 'Ebenezer's Christmas Carol' was published in 2010, and two more plays are contracted and will be out this year - 'Dorothy's Road Trip' (which was performed here in Tumbler in 2009) and last year's play 'A Midterm Eve's Phantasm'.
     Beyond the fact that I hope you found my story interesting, here are a few things I hope you come away with:
1. If it's important you will make the time. As women we tend to be doubly busy with all the demands on our lives - family, career, home ... People ask, 'Where do you find the time?" My answer is, I really don't know. All I know is, if it's important enough, you will find the time. 

2.  Admit your shortcomings and learn from your mistakes. This is also known as 'humility'. Even the experts can still learn and grow. I could have burned that first manuscript and swore off writing. But instead, I chose to LEARN, GROW  and keep moving forward. Someone once said, even falling flat on your face is still moving forward. Believe it.

3.  Sometimes things worth having take time. You've heard it said that 'patience is a virtue' but in today's fast paced world of instant everything this can be hard to accept. But with patience comes maturity, depth and ultimately something much better than it was. I've been asked why I didn't just self-publish that first book instead of waiting so long and going to so much effort to get a book deal. Don't get me wrong - self publishing is a viable option for many, but for me I am so glad I didn't. It's all about quality and I'm sure I would be cringing now if I had. That book just wasn't ready and neither was I.

4.  Finally, never give up on your dream. I know this sounds cliche, but it's true. I'm blessed to have a husband and family who were always very supportive. My husband never said, "Why are you wasting all that time when it'll never get published anyway?" I'm grateful for that, but even if you do find yourself alone, don't give up. Find those little moments - those 'naptimes' - and pursue your passion, whatever it might be. 




    

AND THE BEAT GOES ON Showcase

All this week my book AND THE BEAT GOES ON will be showcased at various blogs and sites around the cybersphere. Thanks to everyone who is participating. Here's more info about the book:

And The Beat Goes On is the story of Mark Graham, an archeologist who discovers pterodactyl remains buried alongside giant humans while working in the mountains of Zimbabwe. Naturally, as a scientist, he wants to discover the truth about the find, but is having trouble reconciling the evidence with the scientific community’s expectations. Speculation leads to the possible existence of a mythical race known as ‘Nephilim’, a pre-flood people alleged to have descended from both gods and men. But skepticism and sabotage delay Mark and his team as the dig site is compromised, putting their discovery – as well as his very life – in grave danger. Deceived and framed by trusted friends and colleagues, Mark struggles to safeguard his findings and protect his reputation in order to unearth the mystery behind the Nephilim. 

The book raises a lot of questions, both about the possibility of intelligent design, and the possibility of a conspiracy to keep this theory at bay. However, it doesn’t really attempt to come to any conclusive answer either way. What I hope it does, (and I have had quite a bit of feedback to suggest this is the case) is get people thinking and talking about these issues. That was my intent right from the start. I am not a scientist and I don’t pretend to know all the answers to some of the questions raised, but I am interested in the topic of intelligent design as a viable theory, not just for people that believe in Biblical creation. As well, I am fascinated by the  potential for supernatural beings that may have visited planet earth, be they angels, demons, or aliens.  Both of these aspects of the story come together in a modern setting that also has some romance in it, too. I mention the romance, not to scare off any male readers, but to say that many fans of the book have actually been men, and there is enough action and intrigue that they weren’t put off by the romantic elements. 

AND THE BEAT GOES ON is available in hardcover, paperback and as an ebook. Here are some purchase links:

Amazon

Barnes and Noble

Chapters/Indigo

Direct from the Publisher

Here are some links to other blogs and sites where the book is being featured this week:

12th--Carol Brown        

          Katharine Harms

13th--Ashley Wintters

14th - Janet Eckles 
         Carol Brown (again!) 

         Anita Estes

15th--Kimberley Payne
         Carol Brown - Chapter One of AND THE BEAT GOES ON 

         Kenneth Winters
         Leigh DeLozier

16th--Tom Blubaugh
          Rose McCauley

Until Forever winner

Congratulations to Linda* on winning a copy of UNTIL FOREVER by Darlene Shortridge - we'll be in touch!

Upcoming Showcase AND THE BEAT GOES ON

All next week, my book AND THE BEAT GOES ON will be showcased on several blogs and social networking sites. Stay tuned for links.

Savor Life

Please forgive me as I get really indulgent here and maybe even a little bit sentimental. You see, today happens to be my son's birthday, and it's a bit of a milestone. My 'baby' - the youngest of four and the only boy, turns twenty today. This fact kind of hit me as I pondered the implications. I am no longer the mother of teenagers. When I say I have four adult children, I really mean it. It's a bit sobering.

I can't help but think back to that day, twenty year ago, when Zachary made his way into the world. I was surprised when he was born, not just because we chose not to have an ultrasound so we didn't know his gender beforehand, but because he looked exactly as I had pictured him. I had had a very vivid dream a few weeks before in which I saw a very clear picture of what he looked like. The dream made such an impact that I shared it with my husband, and needless to say I was amazed that he actually looked exactly as I had seen him in my dream. I won't go onto a rabbit trail about dreams here, but I do believe that God can still use dreams for His purposes if he so wishes.

In any case, this imagery brings to mind all the sweet sensory stimuli that a brand new baby brings. The softness of skin and eiderdown hair as you rub it against your cheek; the distinctive scent of newness inhaled that fills your senses like no perfume ever could...  These are moments to savor. To just enjoy the silence of soft breathing as you cradle this new life in your arms. No agenda. No timetable. Just existing together and basking in the wonder of life, love and contentment.

I suppose this is how God sees us at times. He just wants to be with us with no particular agenda. Sometimes we get so busy in life that we don't stop to savor these moments - with God or with other people. Often it's these simple, seemingly insignificant moments that hold the most precious memories.

Take some time today to savor...

HNIC - Strange Inspiration

Last Saturday night found me in a hotel room, alone with my computer. I had an unexpected opportunity to catch a ride to the city where my father lives, which is about 1600 kilometres from my home. He isn't getting any younger and although I try to visit him at least once a year, this seemed like a perfect chance to squeeze in another short visit. I made a spur of the moment decision and packed my suitcase.

We had to stop over for one night as my traveling companions had plans, but I was quite happy for the time and solitude. There's nothing a writer likes more than a quiet place away from the distractions and obligations of 'real' life. I set up my laptop, preparing to write, but realized that something was missing. I decided to turn on the TV and as I flipped through the channels it dawned on me.

It was Saturday night. If you are Canadian - even if you're not a hockey fan - you know what this means. For all my other readers, let me explain. Since the advent of television, our public broadcaster here in Canada - the CBC - has aired a program called 'Hockey Night In Canada'. It's basically a Canadian institution, even after TSN and all the other big sports broadcasters took over everything else. HNIC has remained a staple in many homes and this has certainly been the case for me.

Saturday nights with HNIC permeate my childhood memories. My father was an avid sports fan and never missed a game. Like it or not, the rest of the family shared the experience. Often, I remember being curled up in a chair reading, sitting at the kitchen table drawing, or playing a board game with one of my siblings. But inevitably, the sound of 'Hockey Night In Canada' filled my subconscious.

My husband's recollections of his childhood Saturday nights are similar, and guess what? Once we were married, HNIC became part and parcel of our Saturday nights together. Again, whether I actually watched the game or not wasn't really relevant. Just the presence of the show was enough. It was comforting, somehow.

I first noticed this strange phenonenon a month or so ago. My husband started working shift work a few years ago so wasn't always home on Saturday nights, but HNIC continued to be part of life because my son, who still lived at home, never missed a broadcast. Then, about a month ago, my son moved out on his own. My first Saturday night at home alone seemed strange. I turned on the TV, found HNIC and immediately felt better. I got lots of writing done that night, with the familiar sounds of HNIC in the background.

Since then I've found its comforting noise to be a sure fire way to make me feel like writing. I had to laugh when I spoke with my daughter on the phone that Saturday night in the hotel. She couldn't believe I was watching HNIC when I had a choice! In fact, I told her I wasn't really watching. It was simply the presence of this Saturday night ritual that inspired me.

Lessons Learned Through Writing

I've been writing seriously now for over twenty five years. Although my 'writing life' has changed dramatically since publication, its by examining the entire quarter century span that I recognize some major lessons learned. Here are some things that writing has taught me:

1. If it's important enough, you'll make the time. We all seem to live 'time starved' lives, but it's interesting to note that if its really important to you - something that you are truly passionate about - you'll somehow make time for it.

2. Nothing worth having comes easy. This saying is especially true when it comes to writing. Writing is hard work. Few people, if any, sit down and write the next great novel or screenplay without a ton of research, rewriting and revising. It just doesn't happen overnight. (No matter what you've seen in the movies.) 

3. Perseverance and tenacity are a must. This is true during the writing process and afterward. Somewhere in the middle of your manuscript, you might lose interest or inspiration. Push through! There is nothing quite as gratifying as finishing that project. These lessons in perseverance will be invaluable if and when you decide to submit your work. It took me 16 - 18 years to finally get to this stage, and then several more years and literally hundreds of rejections before my first manuscript was accepted for publication. Which leads nicely into the next lesson...

4. Humility makes you strong in the long run. Rejection hurts. So does criticism. But both of these, when done constructively and honestly, can teach you more than any book or course. Rather than wallow in despair, take these suggestions to heart and do something about it. The saying goes, what doesn't kill you makes you strong. This is so true. The moment a writer thinks he or she knows it all is the moment he or she stops growing.

5. Passion supersedes perception. Ultimately, I've learned that I must write from my heart - the stories that I feel passionate about and in a style that I am comfortable with, not what someone else says I should write. Some might even say, write what you feel 'called' to write. Obviously, one has to think about audience, but not to the point of compromise. For me, this would defeat the purpose of writing entirely. I'm not in it for the fame and certainly not for the fortune. (I won't be quitting my day job any time soon ...) I write from a place of personal need - a need to express myself.

In short, I've learned that writing is such an integral part of my life that with or without public recognition or accolades, I'll still be pounding away at the keys, hopefully for another twenty five years or so.

Until Forever - Giveaway and Review!

I recently read UNTIL FOREVER by Darlene Shortridge. She has generously offered to giveaway a copy of the book. All you have to do is follow this blog and leave a comment! Easy peasy! The giveaway will be running all week, so visit again and leave another comment to increase your chances of winning. Now for my review:

Review of UNTIL FOREVER

Until Forever by Darlene Shortridge is a deeply emotional story about second chances and learning to forgive. From the outset, Jessi and Mark Jensen’s marriage is rocky at best. Jessi comes across as an over anxious control freak, while her husband Mark is selfish, immature and has a drinking problem. With that kind of foundation, is it any wonder that Jessi coddles their only child and treats Mark like an adolescent rather than an equal member of the relationship? Then devastation strikes. Mark and their son Ethan are involved in a car accident. Mark, who had been drinking, goes to jail and Ethan falls into an unresponsive coma.

Several years pass and Jessi decides to pull the plug and let Ethan die. She has become even more bitter than before, and even her Aunt Merry, a woman of deep faith, cannot convince her to surrender her problems to God. Meanwhile, Mark has been undergoing some changes of his own while in prison. Befriended by the prison Chaplin, he becomes a Christian and embarks on a brand new life as a believer. The biggest surprise that takes place during this time is that Jessi has had another child – a girl named Olivia, who is also Mark’s daughter. Apparently she was pregnant when the accident happened and no one knew. I had to wonder where the infant was while she was spending every waking moment at her son’s bedside before he died. That aside, the story moves forward when Mark gets released from prison. For me, this is where the story really begins.

The tables have turned as far as the reader’s sympathies go. Mark is a genuinely changed man, where as Jessi has become, quite understandably, even more anxious and unforgiving. Little by little, however, through the prayers of Aunt Merry, Mark and others, Jessi begins to soften.

What I really liked about this book was the way the characters were so well rounded. I can’t imagine facing this same kind of trauma and yet the author manages to reveal all the emotional turmoil while still keeping it real. Healing is a slow process for Jessi, as I imagine it would be for someone faced with this situation. Mark, as a Christian, demonstrates the dramatic change that can take place in a person’s life without becoming a goody-good or seeming cliché.

Because of the depth of the emotional content, this was not always an easy book to read. However, it was satisfying in that the character’s growth and the story line moved steadily forward. Ultimately, healing does come, but it is not an easy journey. For a poignant, touching, and thought provoking read, try Until Forever.

Week long chance to win!

My links for this week include an interview I did over at Deanna Jewel's blog. If you haven't already, you should check it out and leave a comment. You could win a signed copy of PLAY IT AGAIN.

Win a Kindle - John 3:16MN Blog Hop

John 3:16 Giveaway Blog Hop

I belong to a fantastic network of authors: the John 3:16 Marketing Network who are banding together May 7th to May 14th for a great Giveaway Blog Hop.  Readers will have the opportunity to “hop” from one author’s blog to another signing up at each blog for a chance to win some amazing prizes.

Every John 3:16 member is offering something different on their blogs so readers have a chance to win books, e-gifts, gift cards and more!

But that’s not all!

The John 3:16 Marketing Network is going to give away a Kindle to one lucky reader too!

I will be posting more details in April and then get ready for the

John 3:16 Marketing Network’s Giveaway Blog Hop

 - May 7th to 14th -.

It’s going to be amazing!